As people propose that friendship ,or at least family,could be the model for all relationship,we prize above all those qualities which make good friendship possible: reliability,generosity,gentleness. Most of us have been indoctrinated into hierarchy and contentation since we were born, and takes and that makes it no small feat to interact in ways of liberate and enable more than cripple-still, it happens all the time! Each of us tries to give without demanding in return, to be a person with whom no one must feel ashamed. It’s been said that we are against marriage, but the opposite is more true: yes, we emphasize that no one is the property of another,but even more so that everybody on this planet practically married- and we insist that everyone act accordingly…
All this is not to say that we approach soldiers with flowers when they come for our children-nor do we offer corporations our children when they comes for our flowers. Sometimes love also can only speak through the barrel of gun…
Self determination is always begins at our own fucking home. Not to be force by, doctrine,or necessity to claim one fragment of yourself and disown others. Not to take sides within and against yourself, not to play judge and jury constantly at our own trial. Not to protect pristine ignorance with inaction, but to learn from a mistakes and thus grow wise. Not to choose one path in life and follow it to the exclusion of all others, but to throw false unity and consistentcy to the wind-to give expression to every impulse and yearning in what you deem it’s proper time, and appreciate what is fertile in turmoil. To do this knowing you are a part of community that cherishes you unconditionally-and to cherish others in their entirely, as they reflects parts of yourself. To live without petty squabbles of pecking order and power structure inside any more than around, that is the dream of selfhood
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Good post.
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